A Native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt about a tragedy. He said, "I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart. One wolf is the vengeful, angry, violent one. The other wolf is the loving, compassionate one".

The grandson asked him, "Which wolf will win the fight in your heart?"

The grandfather answered, "The one I feed."


LIFE

If I had my life to live over again, I'd try to make more mistakes next time. I would relax. I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been this trip. I know of very few things I would take seriously. I would be crazier. I would be less hygienic. I would take more chances. I would take more trips. I would climb more mountains, swim more rivers and watch more sunsets. I would burn more gasoline. I would eat more ice creams and fewer beans. I would have more actual problems and fewer imaginary ones.

You see, I am one of those people who live prophylactically
and sensibly and sanely. Hour after hour. Day after day. Oh, I have had my moments and if I had it to do over again, I'd have more of them. In fact, I'd have nothing else. Just moments, one right after another, instead of living so many years ahead of each day. I have been one of those people who never go anywhere without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, a gargle, a raincoat and a parachute. If I had to do it over again, I would go places and do things and travel lighter than I have.

If I had my life to liver over, I would start barefoot earlier in the Spring and stay that way later in the Fall. I would play hookey more often, I wouldn't make good grades except by accident. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I'd pick more daisies. If you hold your nose to the grindstone rough and hold it there long enough you'll soon forget there are such things as brooks that babble and birds that sing. These things will your world compose: just you, a stone and your darned old nose.

Nadine Stair (85 years old)


Our deepest fear is that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves - Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of the Universe.
Your playing small doesn't serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of the spirit that is within us.
It is not just some of us; it is everyone.
As we light our light shine, we unconsciously give people
permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Nelson Mandela. Inaugural speech 1994


Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, but on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue is there; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be your self. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cyncial about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrending the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars. You have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and borken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Found in St. Paul's Church Baltimore.dated 1692


They came after the Jews
And I was not a Jew
So I did not object

Then they came after the Catholics.
And I was not a Catholic.
So I did not object.

Then they came after the Trade Unionists.
And I was not a Trade Unionist.
So I did not object.

Then they came after me.
And there was no one left to object.


Martin Niemoeller. Protestant Pastor



DEATH IS NOTHING AT ALL

Death is nothing at all.... I have only slipped into the next room.... I am I, and you are you...whatever were were to each other - that we are still.

Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at little jokes we enjoyed together. Let my name be the household word it ever was. Let it be spoken without effort, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Life means all that it ever meant.

It is the same as it ever was, there is absolutely unbroken continuity. What is death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for an interval, somewhere near just around the corner........... All is well.



Canon Henry Scott Holland 1847-1918